How to Stop Fighting Step #4 Fighting Fair: Developing a System for Handling Disputes

Option B. Agree to Talk and Solve Problems Collaboratively

This may or may not be a feasible approach. It depends on the people's values and sense of "fairness."

Every plan should include (at least) three elements:

1. A clear statement of values upon which decisions will be based.
2. Procedures for determining each side's interests and needs.
3. Procedures for making fair decisions (based on shared values).