How to Stop Fighting Step #6 Deal Constructively with Irreconcilable Differences

Option A. Avoid Talking.

This is a common approach, and at times, it can be the best one.

But it only works if you really can put the issue aside, and not be constantly distracted by the unresolved disagreement.

If you can't put it aside -- if the conflict continually grates on you -- avoiding talking about it is likely to cause increased interpersonal hostility and frustration.

Over time, this can take a significant toll on the relationship.